"I could barely remember to stop at the drugstore to buy toothpaste- it didn't seem realistic to think that I could incorporate these high aims into my everyday routine."

The Happiness Project, Gretchen Rubin


Utterly inspirational.  I have to say, I absolutely enjoyed reading this one from start to finish.  This novel centers on the author's year-long challenge of putting her happiness to the forefront by implementing strategies, backed by research and anecdotal evidence, into place.  Gretchen seamlessly incorporates a self-help guide for her audience while simultaneously documenting her own progress (both the missteps and the advances) with her personal "happiness" journey.

Each chapter represents not only a new month, but also a different aspect of life that she chooses to focus her "happiness" efforts on.

January: Boost Energy; Vitality
February: Remember Love; Marriage
March: Aim Higher; Work
April: Lighten Up; Parenthood
May: Be Serious About Play; Leisure
June: Make Time for Friends; Friendship
July: Buy Some Happiness; Money
August: Contemplate the Heavens; Eternity
September: Pursue a Passion; Books
October: Pay Attention; Mindfulness
November: Keep a Contented Heart; Attitude
December: Boot Camp Perfect; Happiness

It seems appropriate to highlight a few of my favorite tips/suggestions from the book in order to give you a better understanding of this infectious read!  Sure, some of them seem obvious, superficial, or even  downright ridiculous..... but in the end, sometimes that may be just what one needs.

*Be yourself- As the author puts it, "Be Gretchen." Ok, so "Be Jessica."
*De-clutter- "the evening tidy up": take ten minutes before bed to put away the miscellaneous
*Launch a blog- Check.
*Enjoy the now- stop banking on the future
*Be a Treasure House of Happy Memories- keep the good times vivid and remembered
*Go Off the Path- experience new thoughts, encounters, and places, to increase creativity
*Don't Gossip- whoops.
*Keep a Gratitude Journal- "grateful people are happier and more satisfied with their lives..."
*Write a book- one day, one day....
*Laugh Out Loud- "it can boost immunity and lower blood pressure and cortisol levels..."
*Stimulate the Mind in New Ways- getting out of your comfort zone heightens growth
*Tackle a Nagging Task- "unfinished tasks were draining my energy and making me feel guilty..."
*Act the way I want to feel- be authentic.

This one will be making its new home front and center on the coveted bookshelf (not too many slots left available!).  I could certainly see myself making reference of this novel several times in the future...

"She happens to like their infantile humor- it's her taste, too. But they never include her."

The Imperfectionists, Tom Rachman


Totally late on this post.  I blame my tardiness on the fact that this was an excruciating difficult book for me to complete. Sure, it's a New York Times bestseller but, unfortunately, not one of my favorites.

Unbeknownst to me when I first made my purchase, this book consists of eleven short stories (one for each chapter) focusing on the personal lives of various characters that are all in some way connected to an international newspaper company set in Rome, Italy.  Each chapter is a story in and of itself, however simultaneously overlapping with the others to make a complete picture by the end of the novel.

I found it challenging to relate or root for the characters detailed in this novel.  Every chapter or story ended in some tragic way.  Whether it was being taken advantage of by a colleague, or discovering your partner is having an affair, or being purposely humiliated..... the list goes on and on.  Honestly, it was an arduous task to even finish a chapter knowing the character you started to empathize with was about to have some misfortune bestowed upon him or her.  No, thanks.

By all means, it was not a book for me.  However, if anyone would like to borrow it, let me know, because I have no hesitations lending this one out!

“The story of the rapper and the story of the hustler are like rap itself, two kinds of rhythm working together, having a conversation with each other, doing more together than they could do apart"

Decoded, Jay-Z


That's right. I read a novel about rap, hustling (slang for drug dealing), and the rise from poverty from the perspective of an African American male.  Maybe I don't look like the typical audience for this type of novel, but let me explain....

To me, Oprah is the end- all, be-all. I am a HUGE Oprah fan to say the least. So, when I watched her annual "Favorite Things" episode and she endorsed Jay-Z's new novel, Decoded, I was a bit surprised.  I have watched countless other shows where she denounced the genre of rap for its use of misogynistic, violent, and racist lyrics, and here she was (the queen of the anti "n word") telling the world to go out and read the book of one of the most notorious rappers of our time.  It certainly piqued my interest.

Coming from a visual person, this novel was one of the most eye-pleasing books I've seen in a long time. The glossy pages, pertinent photographs, and dramatic cover definitely made me want to at least flip through the book.... , and then before I knew it, I was in line at the bookstore to purchase my very own copy!

Overall, the novel is authentic and raw with a level of candor that one cannot help but appreciate.  Jay-Z has a way with words in his music that easily makes the transition over to print format.  He parallels the world of rap to the world of hustling, making the point that there are more similarities between the two than what one might initially think. ("the two overlap as much as they diverge...")  He states, "The story of the hustler was the story hip-hop was born to tell- not its only story, but the story that found voice in the form and, in return, helped grow the form into an art."

He makes a strong argument that rap is truly poetry, an art, and a metaphor for the underprivileged to tell their struggles.  Yeah, sometimes the stories hip-hop songs voice to the public are not the ones people want to hear, but it's honest. Jay-Z is very clear that he might embellish songs for entertainment purposes, but it is always grounded in the "truth of that experience."  He flawlessly executes the deconstruction (or "decoding")  of the lyrics to several of his famous songs which gives the reader insight into the intent behind the words.  On first glance, many of the lyrics seem superficial but with his explanation one can truly appreciate the intellect that goes into some of his music.

My strongest criticism is that, at times, his prose seemed a bit contradictory (re: no apologies for his lyrics to those who take offense but criticizing others for their opinions....)  However, I enjoyed reading the novel, and recommend it to those who are open-minded about gaining a new perspective and appreciation for the skill that goes into creating the music that has made Shawn Carter into Jay-Z.

"I felt swollen with potential tears, like a water balloon filled to burst. Begging for a pin prick."

Sharp Objects, Gillian Flynn

Ok, love, love, love, this one! A creepy mystery with themes of psychological suspense and a protagonist who is, at times, just as rotten as the other characters. This is the author’s debut novel, and I’m already eagerly awaiting her next deliciously indulgent read! 

The novel focuses on the character of Camille Preaker, a journalist out of Chicago, whose latest assignment requires her to return to her family’s hometown of Wind Gap to report on the possible serial murders of two young girls.  By coming back to her hometown, Camille is forced to finally confront the memories and questionable reputation that she left behind so many years ago.  She has been able to avoid this homecoming for nearly a decade, and for good reason, too! ("Wind Gap was unhealthy for me. This home was unhealthy for me.") Let’s just say Camille and her elitist mother, Adora, never had the most ideal relationship.  One that was initially shaky and then completely damaged after the death of Camille’s younger sister Marian, mother's favorite. 

“And now you come back and all I can think of is ‘why Marian and not her?’” Ouch.

Camille escapes her painful past and her mother's scathing remarks by indulging in both excessive alcohol use and self-injury. But, even these tried and true avoiding tactics won't hold up during this homecoming.  Camille will ultimately be forced to get to the root of her issues once and for all.

Highly recommended read for anyone out there who appreciates a solid thriller, albeit quite sinister at times....